“I hate how everything has gotten so competitive. First to catch feelings is a fool; double texting or calling two days suddenly means you’re needy, and honesty is completely off the table. Social media has amplified this obsession with perception, turning dating into a game of control and aesthetics rather than one of curiosity and vulnerability.” We asked Nigerians what they think is wrong with today’s dating culture, why dating feels exhausting, and what could actually fix it.
“I hate how everything has gotten so competitive. First to catch feelings is a fool; double texting or calling two days suddenly means you’re needy, and honesty is completely off the table. Social media has amplified this obsession with perception, turning dating into a game of control and aesthetics rather than one of curiosity and vulnerability.” We asked Nigerians what they think is wrong with today’s dating culture, why dating feels exhausting, and what could actually fix it. Read More dating, relationships, love